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Have you ever said something and then wondered what just happened? Or have you ever held your tongue only to find things have stalled in interactions with the person involved? We often find ourselves walking the tightrope between honesty and empathy, especially in workplace interactions. There is a delicate balance between expressing genuine thoughts and maintaining harmonious relationships. This balance is crucial not only for building trust but also for fostering an inclusive and productive work environment, as well as hiring the right people.The one thing that helps us move forward in our careers and relationships is the ability to communicate effectively. This sets successful people apart. It's about understanding when to voice opinions and when to listen, ensuring that every interaction contributes positively. As a leader, this leads to strong team dynamics and organizational growth. As coworkers, this opens up conversations that don’t have lines in the sand drawn but have trust in the discussion, leading to a better outcome. And to hiring managers, it helps us hire the best talent that is also aligned with the culture.Returning to the question, have you ever wondered what happened in communication or experienced a stalled interaction? Typically, an opinion was introduced without understanding the recipient. Since opinions are not factual and based on a person’s experiences and interpretations, they can polarize discussions. Don’t believe me, watch the news tonight and really reflect on how you feel about whichever political candidate they are talking about that resonates with you, about the things going on in the world and how you feel about them. Now, for just a moment, forget about the political candidate you are fond of and pretend that your significant other really likes the other candidate. How will you talk with them about politics and not get into a heated argument – after all, you love them, right? And as there are conflicts across the globe, for a moment, step out of your opinion and look at facts with an open mind, realizing there are two sides of good and bad. I am not saying you shouldn’t have an opinion, but I am saying that in relationships, we never have the same opinion. That doesn’t make the other person’s opinion wrong. It just makes it different.A good question to help understand when to voice an opinion and when to listen is to ask yourself, “Do I know everything about this topic?” or “Have I only focused on what validates what I believe?” If the answer is the latter part of the question, I recommend openly listening. It won’t change your opinion, but it will change your understanding of another person’s opinion and help you to communicate candidly and kindly. The key is finding a middle ground where honesty is delivered with empathy and respect. And where feedback is is feedback is constructive and everyone feels valued.http://buff.ly/3R8xOvp

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Agree Kimberly Wilson. A balance between honesty and empathy is key to effective communication in the workplace. This balance helps build trust, foster inclusivity, and create a productive environment. As leaders, understanding this dynamic enhances team cohesion and guides us in making better decisions.

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